Outgrowing
“It’s okay for people to go separate ways in relationships after they realize they are outgrowing their partners,” said someone during a recent conversation. I… Read More »Outgrowing
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Existential Reflections
In the End
In the end, it is all about the identity. Isn’t it?The sheer want to be seen as someone whodeeply cares, takes risks, and dares to… Read More »In the End
On Adult Friendships
I am reflecting on adult friendships today and their fragility. I put sincere effort into sustaining friendships and keeping them afloat because I value them… Read More »On Adult Friendships
Honouring Each Other’s Journeys
Do your loved ones a favour. When they tell you about something they’re exploring, which you think they should have done earlier, refrain from saying,… Read More »Honouring Each Other’s Journeys
#MeToo
I was four when a cousin of a cousinheld me tight when nobody was around.I felt suffocated, felt something was off.I couldn’t understand what was… Read More »#MeToo
Do I Have the Permission to Feel Hurt?
I’ve come a long way forth,I’ve been feeling a lot lighter.The confrontation with realityhas helped me mend and heal.The embrace of this life ‘as is,’comforts… Read More »Do I Have the Permission to Feel Hurt?
My Love for You
My love for you has always been alivein highs, in lows, in deep reflections,in celebrations and also in mournings,it has given me strength to be,… Read More »My Love for You
Some Days
There are some daysI cut open my feelings,put them on my palmsand observe them. There are some daysI acknowledge existenceI feel thankful to livebut I… Read More »Some Days
An Object of Lust?
I don’t want to be just seen as a body that luresI don’t want to be just seen as an object of lust;I don’t want… Read More »An Object of Lust?
Lessons I Learned in 2021
I wrote a similar reflection on Jan 3, 2020, about what 2019 taught me. I didn’t write down my thoughts on 2020 because it was a year… Read More »Lessons I Learned in 2021